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Former Studville Star to Play the Black Lesbian Dating Game

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About Our Family

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WATCH: When Masculine Lesbians Choose to Carry Their Babies

·May 10, 2020
·Zamara Perri
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Two masculine black lesbians talk about the challenges and joys of motherhood including the assumptions that others made about their sexuality or masculinity while they carried, dating while being pregnant, their first Mother’s Day celebrations, what they regret most and advice for masculine women who choose to carry their babies!

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Heidi and Tikesha embrace during one of their international meet ups. Photo by NIBA Photography.

Catch Feelings & Flights: Two Stories of Long Distance Love

·February 2, 2020
·Zamara Perri
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Tikesha was living her best life! She was living and working in Europe and frequently indulged in one of her favorite hobbies--traveling. For three years, she hopped from country to…

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A Love that Bridges the Distance

·July 28, 2019
·Guest Author
·4 Comments

We met online 5 years ago. And now here we were hugging each other for the first time in the middle of a crowded Florida airport.

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Girl Bye (Breaking Up)

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7 Rules for Living With Your Ex When You Cannot Afford to Move Out

·May 31, 2019
·Alexandria Carter
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Breakups are extra tough when you live together. Here are seven ways black lesbians can get through living with the ex when you can't afford to move out.

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WATCH: Is Your Relationship Ready for Pride?

·May 27, 2019
·Black Lesbian Love Lab
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For couples, Pride can be a sticky issue. It can be a fun event to attend together or the beginning of the end of your relationship.

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About Our Family

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The ABCs of Losing A Perfect Lesbian Relationship

·May 17, 2019
·Black Lesbian Love Lab
·3 Comments

We had two cars, vacations, home renovations, parties and so much fun! We were lesbian jet-setting. We often joked about how we felt sorry for couples who didn’t have what we have. Instead of being grateful and humble we were assholes, sometimes.

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Benir & Adameka: Love at First Conversation

·April 26, 2019
·Zamara Perri
·1 Comment

“We knew that we were meant to be together from the first conversation. It was truly love at first sight/conversation.”

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Unsung

·March 30, 2019
·Guest Author
·3 Comments

Apparently, I'm not woman enough to seek solace among my sisters Either too dangerous or intimidating to have a true friend among my misters So many plots against me, feels so sinister You see I'm reviled on Facebook, Twitter, and stages like this Women get 50 comments, retweets, or snaps when spit some sad agg dis Just because you always pick 0s I get treated like this? You see I'm UNSUNG

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Sex

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Scent of a Woman

·March 15, 2019
·Alexandria Carter
·5 Comments

Opening you as my hands slide under your ass and up your back to pull you closer so I can taste the depths of your soul and dive deeper within your skin making it my own.

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Career & Community

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Married Black Lesbian Truckers Share Their Story

·February 27, 2019
·Black Lesbian Love Lab
·0 Comments

Truck driving has always been dominated by white men. Now more and more LGBT people are getting into the industry including black lesbians.

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Separating Fact From Fiction with Stud Slayer

·February 18, 2019
·Kai Garcon
·0 Comments

I get paid to have sex, either through the porn I am producing or through private clients. I see you still gagging and clutching your pearls, but it is what it is. I’m not ashamed of what I do.

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You Teach Your Partners to Disrespect You

·February 6, 2019
·Zamara Perri
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WATCH on Youtube>>> https://youtu.be/4q7RZVvGgyg It seems like one of our favorite past times as black lesbians is to sit around talking about the many ways our partners or ex-partners disrespect…

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Why are Some Black Lesbians So Fckn Hard to Love?

·December 4, 2018
·Zamara Perri
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Are you one of those women who claim to want love, but when someone tries to lay it on you, you PUSH them away? I had to address this situation…

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Are studs turning to men?

Are Studs Leaving Femmes for Men?

·November 7, 2018
·Black Lesbian Love Lab
·0 Comments

We already know that there are studs out there who prefer to date other studs. No judgment there! Love who you want to love, plus when you take the clothes…

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Black Lesbian EX Etiquette

·November 7, 2018
·Zamara Perri
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Black lesbians, why are we STILL confused about how to deal with an EX when you have a new boo? If new boo has a problem with your EX, then…

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Renée and Angelle: Taking a Chance at Love After 50

·August 18, 2018
·Black Lesbian Love Lab
·2 Comments

Written by Renée Best Renee, 58, and Angelle, 56, of North Bergen, N.J., are proof that you CAN find love after 50! The pair met at her sister's wedding…

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There’s A Stranger In My Bed: My Recovery From Loving A Narcissist

·July 31, 2018
·Guest Author
·4 Comments

Written by DAnn If you have ever been in an intimate relationship and discovered the person you loved was not who she pretended to be, perhaps you have already experienced…

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Photo by Henri Meilhac

No Thanks, I Don’t Want To Be Your First. #SorryNotSorry

·July 19, 2018
·Zamara Perri
·1 Comment

Every lesbian was somebody’s first. I hear that all the time as the reason why I need to change my mind about never wanting to date a new lesbian. That…

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Kissing Black Lesbians Grace New York Times Magazine Covers

·June 7, 2018
·Black Lesbian Love Lab
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The New York Times Magazine recently captured the love and intimacy between 37 couples in the world’s most famous city--New York. Four of those photos featured the intensity, passion, love…

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Models: Ari Fitz and Christine Ting

I was Married to a Man When I Discovered I Loved Women

·May 29, 2018
·Guest Author
·1 Comment

Written by Neece Parish I grew up in the church where I was taught clearly defined gender roles and rules for sexuality.I dated boys, then men; never really satisfied…

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About Our Family

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Could I Lose The Children I Raised? A Stud’s Story

·May 11, 2018
·Guest Author
·0 Comments

Written by Shy Williams My worst nightmare has come true. We were no longer a couple. I am now alone in our two-bedroom apartment. She packed up a few outfits…

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Bullies Want Puppets, Not Partners

·May 10, 2018
·Guest Author
·2 Comments

Written by Casey Mason* Don’t go looking for a strong, capable woman with her life in order and expect her not to have likes, dislikes, opinions and a personality built…

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Congratulations to Teressa and LaTasha!

Teressa and LaTasha Loving & Laughing Together

·April 30, 2018
·Black Lesbian Love Lab
·1 Comment

Written by Teressa Wilson I met my wife LaTasha on an online dating app back in 2013. The app indicated that we were 90 percent compatible. Her profile picture was…

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Photo by Marble Jordan

Researcher Reveals Why Black Lesbians Marry

·March 29, 2018
·Black Lesbian Love Lab
·0 Comments

Black lesbians who marry don’t do it just for the legal benefits that come with getting hitched. “Black lesbian and bisexual women primarily view marriage as giving them community recognition…

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Follow model on IG @Na0__ / Photo by Tara Jennette

What’s the Toughest Part of Dating as a Plus Sized Lesbian?

·March 5, 2018
·Zamara Perri
·2 Comments

Do plus size black lesbians have a harder time dating and mating? We at Black Lesbian Love Lab have heard from women who have said that they have been friend…

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A Black Lesbian Superhero Love Scene Actually Took Place on TV

·January 27, 2018
·Zamara Perri
·2 Comments

The TV gods have given black lesbians a gift of total black girl magic in the form of a new TV show on CW called, Black Lightning. The show follows…

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About Our Family

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59 Black Lesbian Studs With Their Adorable Kids

·December 15, 2017
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

Anyone who really thinks that masculine women are 100 percent rough 100 percent of the time must have never dated a stud. For those of us who love masculine black…

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Raven and Jaleesa embrace during their engagement photo shoot. Photo by Latashia Gordon

WATCH: A Delta Proposes to a Zeta

·October 12, 2017
·Zamara Perri
·1 Comment

There's nothing like black Greek love and especially when it involves members of the divine nine. "We started out as just friends with actually zero intentions of being together, but…

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About Our Family

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Toya and Nini welcome baby number 2!

11 Black Lesbians Show off Their Beautiful Baby Bumps

·October 11, 2017
·Zamara Perri
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Looks like baby fever is in the air as we found several photos of lovely black lesbian rocking that mommy glow and showing off their baby bumps. Check out these…

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Model: Siena Liggins. Follow her on IG @sienaliggins

Why Are Studs So Scared of My Success and Education?

·October 5, 2017
·Shiane Wilcoxen
·9 Comments

I am a chef. I built my business and my brand over the course of 10+ years. I worked hard and sacrificed a lot. I did a lot of free…

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13 Cheap First Date Ideas That She Will Love

·September 26, 2017
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

My sistas over at the Sipping on Ink Facebook community were recently challenged to plan a date for under $30. It was a tough one, but those ladies rose to…

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10 Questions You Should Ask When Taking a Break From Your Relationship

·August 31, 2017
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

Written by Zamara Perri No matter how much you love each other, there will be times when your girlfriend, wife or partner will pluck your very last nerve. (If that…

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15 Basic Things You Must Do If You Want a Great Long Term Relationship

·August 28, 2017
·Giselle Bella
·1 Comment

Written by Giselle Bella This post may seem like dating 101 or dating for dummies, but it's not. It's really basic relationship tips for my lesbians who are tired of…

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How do You Fall in Love With a Woman after Dating Men all Your Life?

·August 17, 2017
·Zamara Perri
·1 Comment

Written by Sasha Thompson I am 32 years old and up until May of 2015 I would have considered myself a straight woman. I do have to admit that…

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Dinea & Chanel: Love at Any Size

·August 15, 2017
·Zamara Perri
·1 Comment

Written by Dinea C. Elliot-Collins The moment Chanel looked at me and her lips spread into the widest, most beautiful smile I’d ever seen, I wanted to know her and…

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I’m in love With Another Stud

·August 1, 2017
·Zamara Perri
·28 Comments

Written by Jai I'm 31 years old and I was born and raised in Houston, Texas. I now reside in Birmingham, Alabama, with my girlfriend, Elise. On the stud spectrum…

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Health & Spirituality

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Let Me Make it Clear for Church Folk: Who I Love is Not a Phase

·July 28, 2017
·Zamara Perri
·1 Comment

Written by Kendal S. Turner "Let me make something clear for the people in the back who don't know me or my history. I have "struggled" for the lack of…

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Five Queer Films for You and Bae to Chill to This Weekend

·November 24, 2016
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

Written by Jaime Blanson Ladies, it’s officially cuddle season. The days are shorter and colder making it harder for us to leave the house unless we absolutely must. On those…

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Femmes have no idea what studs like rapper Aina Breiyon (formerly known Temper)

What Every Black Femme Fears When Dating a Black Butch

·December 2, 2015
·Zamara Perri
·32 Comments

There was a reason why it took me years to get around to dating a butch. I told myself that I just wasn’t ready to be out. That is partially true. The real reason? I just wasn’t ready to live in a world where my butch partner would be threatened every time we walked down the street hand in hand. This is something I never had to worry about with my femme partners. But now I do.

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20 Ways to Win Her Back and Improve your Relationship

·September 19, 2015
·Guest Author
·2 Comments

Whether you lost her because of something you did or you're wanting to keep the love of your life right beside you, you need to check out this list.

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Black Lesbian Dating Game: Femme Edition

·September 13, 2020
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

via https://youtu.be/RC8xNrYG-PU

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Should We Cancel the Dating Game?

·September 11, 2020
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

via https://youtu.be/M-EeVQbGc8s

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Clip from Niecy Nash & Jessica Betts’ Surprise Wedding

·September 3, 2020
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

via https://youtu.be/7z5ae2A3dR4

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Play the Dating Game with Black Lesbian Love Lab

·June 6, 2020
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

via https://youtu.be/WjWVufNu2-o

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Black Lesbian Love in Quarantine

·May 11, 2020
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

via https://youtu.be/Obax_csLjyI

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Ancestral Magic

·February 14, 2020
·Guest Author
·0 Comments

I could lose track of time creating masterpieces of prose on your skin Until all that remains Of your ache Are my ink stains On your bedsheets

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Single or Struggling Black Lesbians on Valentine’s Day

·February 13, 2020
·Zamara Perri
·0 Comments

via https://youtu.be/HhEM_oDtKng

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