You Teach Your Partners to Disrespect You
WATCH on Youtube>>> https://youtu.be/4q7RZVvGgyg It seems like one of our favorite past times as black lesbians is to sit around talking about the many ways our partners or ex-partners disrespect…
Why are Some Black Lesbians So Fckn Hard to Love?
Are you one of those women who claim to want love, but when someone tries to lay it on you, you PUSH them away? I had to address this…
Are Studs Leaving Femmes for Men?
We already know that there are studs out there who prefer to date other studs. No judgment there! Love who you want to love, plus when you take the clothes…
Black Lesbian EX Etiquette
Black lesbians, why are we STILL confused about how to deal with an EX when you have a new boo? If new boo has a problem with your EX, then…
Renée and Angelle: Taking a Chance at Love After 50
Written by Renée Best Renee, 58, and Angelle, 56, of North Bergen, N.J., are proof that you CAN find love after 50! The pair met at her sister's wedding…
There’s A Stranger In My Bed: My Recovery From Loving A Narcissist
Written by DAnn If you have ever been in an intimate relationship and discovered the person you loved was not who she pretended to be, perhaps you have already experienced…
No Thanks, I Don’t Want To Be Your First. #SorryNotSorry
Every lesbian was somebody’s first. I hear that all the time as the reason why I need to change my mind about never wanting to date a new lesbian. That…
Kissing Black Lesbians Grace New York Times Magazine Covers
The New York Times Magazine recently captured the love and intimacy between 37 couples in the world’s most famous city--New York. Four of those photos featured the intensity, passion, love…
I was Married to a Man When I Discovered I Loved Women
Written by Neece Parish I grew up in the church where I was taught clearly defined gender roles and rules for sexuality.I dated boys, then men; never really satisfied…
Could I Lose The Children I Raised? A Stud’s Story
Written by Shy Williams My worst nightmare has come true. We were no longer a couple. I am now alone in our two-bedroom apartment. She packed up a few outfits…
Bullies Want Puppets, Not Partners
Written by Casey Mason* Don’t go looking for a strong, capable woman with her life in order and expect her not to have likes, dislikes, opinions and a personality built…
Teressa and LaTasha Loving & Laughing Together
Written by Teressa Wilson I met my wife LaTasha on an online dating app back in 2013. The app indicated that we were 90 percent compatible. Her profile picture was…
Researcher Reveals Why Black Lesbians Marry
Black lesbians who marry don’t do it just for the legal benefits that come with getting hitched. “Black lesbian and bisexual women primarily view marriage as giving them community recognition…
What’s the Toughest Part of Dating as a Plus Sized Lesbian?
Do plus size black lesbians have a harder time dating and mating? We at Black Lesbian Love Lab have heard from women who have said that they have been friend…
A Black Lesbian Superhero Love Scene Actually Took Place on TV
The TV gods have given black lesbians a gift of total black girl magic in the form of a new TV show on CW called, Black Lightning. The show follows…
59 Black Lesbian Studs With Their Adorable Kids
Anyone who really thinks that masculine women are 100 percent rough 100 percent of the time must have never dated a stud. For those of us who love masculine black…
Beware of Predators Who Promise Fake Relationships
Ladies, stop sharing your dreams with temporary people. There are women out there who are severely mentally ill or deranged. It gives them a rush to manipulate you and give…
WATCH: A Delta Proposes to a Zeta
There's nothing like black Greek love and especially when it involves members of the divine nine. "We started out as just friends with actually zero intentions of being together, but…
11 Black Lesbians Show off Their Beautiful Baby Bumps
Looks like baby fever is in the air as we found several photos of lovely black lesbian rocking that mommy glow and showing off their baby bumps. Check out these…
Why Are Studs So Scared of My Success and Education?
I am a chef. I built my business and my brand over the course of 10+ years. I worked hard and sacrificed a lot. I did a lot of free…
13 Cheap First Date Ideas That She Will Love
My sistas over at the Sipping on Ink Facebook community were recently challenged to plan a date for under $30. It was a tough one, but those ladies rose to…
When Two Pastors Fall In Love
This past summer, Pastor Twanna Brown and Pastor Vanessa Gause consecrated their love before God and 200 guests at the New Vision Full Gospel Baptist Church in East Orange, N.J.…
Congrats to WNBA Couple Who Just Gave Birth to Twins!
Congratulations to DeWanna Bonner and Candice Dupree! The WNBA players just became new moms to twin girls! The couple met as teammates while playing for the Phoenix Mercury back in…
10 Questions You Should Ask When Taking a Break From Your Relationship
Written by Zamara Perri No matter how much you love each other, there will be times when your girlfriend, wife or partner will pluck your very last nerve. (If that…
15 Basic Things You Must Do If You Want a Great Long Term Relationship
Written by Giselle Bella This post may seem like dating 101 or dating for dummies, but it's not. It's really basic relationship tips for my lesbians who are tired of…
How do You Fall in Love With a Woman after Dating Men all Your Life?
Written by Sasha Thompson I am 32 years old and up until May of 2015 I would have considered myself a straight woman. I do have to admit that…
Dinea & Chanel: Love at Any Size
Written by Dinea C. Elliot-Collins The moment Chanel looked at me and her lips spread into the widest, most beautiful smile I’d ever seen, I wanted to know her and…
I’m in love With Another Stud
Written by Jai I'm 31 years old and I was born and raised in Houston, Texas. I now reside in Birmingham, Alabama, with my girlfriend, Elise. On the stud spectrum…
About Our Love: Kris and Talisa’s Brooklyn Love Affair
Written by Talisa Smith-Justice It has to be fate that brought me and my fianceé, Kris, together. We met at a mutual friend's birthday celebration. Originally, I was not going…
Let Me Make it Clear for Church Folk: Who I Love is Not a Phase
Written by Kendal S. Turner "Let me make something clear for the people in the back who don't know me or my history. I have "struggled" for the lack of…
Five Queer Films for You and Bae to Chill to This Weekend
Written by Jaime Blanson Ladies, it’s officially cuddle season. The days are shorter and colder making it harder for us to leave the house unless we absolutely must. On those…
DL & Sharice: Our Love is an Answer to Prayer
Written by Zamara Perri Eleven years ago, DL Williams prayed that God would send her someone who would love and respect her. When she met Sharice, the woman who would…
About Our Love: On Their 10th Anniversary Tiombe and Liza Are Still Star Struck
Written by Tiombe Caldwell-Burns I met my wife, Liza, at a restaurant 10 years ago. She said she was star struck and couldn’t say anything at the time because I…
What Every Black Femme Fears When Dating a Black Butch
There was a reason why it took me years to get around to dating a butch. I told myself that I just wasn’t ready to be out. That is partially true. The real reason? I just wasn’t ready to live in a world where my butch partner would be threatened every time we walked down the street hand in hand. This is something I never had to worry about with my femme partners. But now I do.
Can Studs & Femmes Be Friends?
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Are Trans Folks Welcome in the Black Lesbian Community?
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Long Distance Relationship Dealbreakers
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Happy Holidays from Black Lesbian Love Lab
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Queering the Holidays
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You’re Not Used to Being Treated Well
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