Catch Feelings & Flights: Two Stories of Long Distance Love
Tikesha was living her best life! She was living and working in Europe and frequently indulged in one of her favorite hobbies--traveling. For three years, she hopped from country to…
A Love that Bridges the Distance
We met online 5 years ago. And now here we were hugging each other for the first time in the middle of a crowded Florida airport.
7 Rules for Living With Your Ex When You Cannot Afford to Move Out
Breakups are extra tough when you live together. Here are seven ways black lesbians can get through living with the ex when you can't afford to move out.
WATCH: Is Your Relationship Ready for Pride?
For couples, Pride can be a sticky issue. It can be a fun event to attend together or the beginning of the end of your relationship.
The ABCs of Losing A Perfect Lesbian Relationship
We had two cars, vacations, home renovations, parties and so much fun! We were lesbian jet-setting. We often joked about how we felt sorry for couples who didn’t have what we have. Instead of being grateful and humble we were assholes, sometimes.
Benir & Adameka: Love at First Conversation
“We knew that we were meant to be together from the first conversation. It was truly love at first sight/conversation.”
Unsung
Apparently, I'm not woman enough
to seek solace among my sisters
Either too dangerous or intimidating
to have a true friend among my misters
So many plots against me, feels so sinister
You see I'm reviled on Facebook, Twitter, and stages like this
Women get 50 comments, retweets, or snaps when spit some sad agg dis
Just because you always pick 0s
I get treated like this?
You see I'm UNSUNG
Scent of a Woman
Opening you as my hands slide under your ass and up your back to pull you closer so I can taste the depths of your soul and dive deeper within your skin making it my own.
Married Black Lesbian Truckers Share Their Story
Truck driving has always been dominated by white men. Now more and more LGBT people are getting into the industry including black lesbians.
Separating Fact From Fiction with Stud Slayer
I get paid to have sex, either through the porn I am producing or through private clients. I see you still gagging and clutching your pearls, but it is what it is. I’m not ashamed of what I do.
You Teach Your Partners to Disrespect You
WATCH on Youtube>>> https://youtu.be/4q7RZVvGgyg It seems like one of our favorite past times as black lesbians is to sit around talking about the many ways our partners or ex-partners disrespect…
Why are Some Black Lesbians So Fckn Hard to Love?
Are you one of those women who claim to want love, but when someone tries to lay it on you, you PUSH them away? I had to address this situation…
Are Studs Leaving Femmes for Men?
We already know that there are studs out there who prefer to date other studs. No judgment there! Love who you want to love, plus when you take the clothes…
Black Lesbian EX Etiquette
Black lesbians, why are we STILL confused about how to deal with an EX when you have a new boo? If new boo has a problem with your EX, then…
Renée and Angelle: Taking a Chance at Love After 50
Written by Renée Best Renee, 58, and Angelle, 56, of North Bergen, N.J., are proof that you CAN find love after 50! The pair met at her sister's wedding…
There’s A Stranger In My Bed: My Recovery From Loving A Narcissist
Written by DAnn If you have ever been in an intimate relationship and discovered the person you loved was not who she pretended to be, perhaps you have already experienced…
No Thanks, I Don’t Want To Be Your First. #SorryNotSorry
Every lesbian was somebody’s first. I hear that all the time as the reason why I need to change my mind about never wanting to date a new lesbian. That…
Kissing Black Lesbians Grace New York Times Magazine Covers
The New York Times Magazine recently captured the love and intimacy between 37 couples in the world’s most famous city--New York. Four of those photos featured the intensity, passion, love…
I was Married to a Man When I Discovered I Loved Women
Written by Neece Parish I grew up in the church where I was taught clearly defined gender roles and rules for sexuality.I dated boys, then men; never really satisfied…
Could I Lose The Children I Raised? A Stud’s Story
Written by Shy Williams My worst nightmare has come true. We were no longer a couple. I am now alone in our two-bedroom apartment. She packed up a few outfits…
Bullies Want Puppets, Not Partners
Written by Casey Mason* Don’t go looking for a strong, capable woman with her life in order and expect her not to have likes, dislikes, opinions and a personality built…
Teressa and LaTasha Loving & Laughing Together
Written by Teressa Wilson I met my wife LaTasha on an online dating app back in 2013. The app indicated that we were 90 percent compatible. Her profile picture was…
Researcher Reveals Why Black Lesbians Marry
Black lesbians who marry don’t do it just for the legal benefits that come with getting hitched. “Black lesbian and bisexual women primarily view marriage as giving them community recognition…
What’s the Toughest Part of Dating as a Plus Sized Lesbian?
Do plus size black lesbians have a harder time dating and mating? We at Black Lesbian Love Lab have heard from women who have said that they have been friend…
A Black Lesbian Superhero Love Scene Actually Took Place on TV
The TV gods have given black lesbians a gift of total black girl magic in the form of a new TV show on CW called, Black Lightning. The show follows…
59 Black Lesbian Studs With Their Adorable Kids
Anyone who really thinks that masculine women are 100 percent rough 100 percent of the time must have never dated a stud. For those of us who love masculine black…
WATCH: A Delta Proposes to a Zeta
There's nothing like black Greek love and especially when it involves members of the divine nine. "We started out as just friends with actually zero intentions of being together, but…
11 Black Lesbians Show off Their Beautiful Baby Bumps
Looks like baby fever is in the air as we found several photos of lovely black lesbian rocking that mommy glow and showing off their baby bumps. Check out these…
Why Are Studs So Scared of My Success and Education?
I am a chef. I built my business and my brand over the course of 10+ years. I worked hard and sacrificed a lot. I did a lot of free…
13 Cheap First Date Ideas That She Will Love
My sistas over at the Sipping on Ink Facebook community were recently challenged to plan a date for under $30. It was a tough one, but those ladies rose to…
10 Questions You Should Ask When Taking a Break From Your Relationship
Written by Zamara Perri No matter how much you love each other, there will be times when your girlfriend, wife or partner will pluck your very last nerve. (If that…
15 Basic Things You Must Do If You Want a Great Long Term Relationship
Written by Giselle Bella This post may seem like dating 101 or dating for dummies, but it's not. It's really basic relationship tips for my lesbians who are tired of…
How do You Fall in Love With a Woman after Dating Men all Your Life?
Written by Sasha Thompson I am 32 years old and up until May of 2015 I would have considered myself a straight woman. I do have to admit that…
Dinea & Chanel: Love at Any Size
Written by Dinea C. Elliot-Collins The moment Chanel looked at me and her lips spread into the widest, most beautiful smile I’d ever seen, I wanted to know her and…
I’m in love With Another Stud
Written by Jai I'm 31 years old and I was born and raised in Houston, Texas. I now reside in Birmingham, Alabama, with my girlfriend, Elise. On the stud spectrum…
Let Me Make it Clear for Church Folk: Who I Love is Not a Phase
Written by Kendal S. Turner "Let me make something clear for the people in the back who don't know me or my history. I have "struggled" for the lack of…
Five Queer Films for You and Bae to Chill to This Weekend
Written by Jaime Blanson Ladies, it’s officially cuddle season. The days are shorter and colder making it harder for us to leave the house unless we absolutely must. On those…
What Every Black Femme Fears When Dating a Black Butch
There was a reason why it took me years to get around to dating a butch. I told myself that I just wasn’t ready to be out. That is partially true. The real reason? I just wasn’t ready to live in a world where my butch partner would be threatened every time we walked down the street hand in hand. This is something I never had to worry about with my femme partners. But now I do.
20 Ways to Win Her Back and Improve your Relationship
Whether you lost her because of something you did or you're wanting to keep the love of your life right beside you, you need to check out this list.
Play the Dating Game with Black Lesbian Love Lab
via https://youtu.be/WjWVufNu2-o
Black Lesbian Love in Quarantine
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Ancestral Magic
I could lose track of time creating masterpieces of prose on your skin
Until all that remains
Of your ache
Are my ink stains
On your bedsheets
Single or Struggling Black Lesbians on Valentine’s Day
via https://youtu.be/HhEM_oDtKng
Why Did Lena Waite Cheat?
via https://youtu.be/9q_9CeabK9U Cheating doesn’t just happen #blacklesbians! We were all shook when Lena and her wife separated after only a few months of marriage. Word on the streets is that…
Stop Worrying About Wasting Your Time
via https://youtu.be/o3bsnUAYlmY
Dealing with Holiday Loneliness as a Single Black Lesbian
via https://youtu.be/YefXZsyM7M4
Is She a Rebound or the One?
via https://youtu.be/zN0i6dHF7WE Rebound relationships are common. We end one relationship and head into another just because someone is conveniently there or because we are afraid to be alone. And some…
