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8 Ways to Win Her Heart This Valentine’s Day Without Breaking the Bank


A spa day in your home or hers is a wonderful Valentine's Day treat!

A spa day in your home or hers is a wonderful Valentine’s Day treat!

Yes coddle, not cuddle! Pamper and indulge your baby at home. Turn your or her place into a spa. This is where you set the ambiance; make it look like a spa as best as you can. The bedroom may be the massage room, so have classical or low-key music playing, the living room may be the pedicure room, the bathroom may be the sauna. Be sure to have a robe and slippers ready for her. You will need body/massage oils, body butter, body scrub and maybe even nail polish. Run her a romantic bath—that means rose petals and candles. You may purchase faux rose petals and tea candles at almost any store around this time. No tub? No worries. Place the petals around the bathroom and include some in the bedroom. You get where this is going. Bathe her, massage her, do her pedicure, but most importantly show her love. Make it exciting. After you’ve adorned her with an at home spa then you may cuddle.

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Zamara Perri

Zamara Perri is the founder and editor of the Black Lesbian Love Lab blog. She loves black love and loves mangoes, cats, reading, cooking and writing about some of the challenges and joys of black lesbian relationships.

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