Giselle Bella Archives - Black Lesbian Love Lab

Your New Year’s Resolution: Break Up With Your Girlfriend

·December 30, 2015
·Black Lesbian Love Lab
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You’ve gotten to the end of the relationship and you know it. You’ve invested your time, your energy, your love and yourself into this relationship but it has not satisfied your desire. It does not fulfill your purpose. It does not meet your vision. You’ve loved each other as best as you could. You’ve disliked each other for a while but tolerated each other for the sake of the relationship. It is time to move on. It is time to call it quits without the drama of shame and hurt.

What Forgiveness Looks Like When We F*ck Up

·October 13, 2015
·Zamara Perri
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I lived my life and had partnerships where I tolerated no mistakes. I kept leaving lovers and partners because they made a mistake whether intentionally or not. I left them according to my standards, not that of love. This therefore, did not support me in growing nor learning through the failures and lessons associated with love.

16 Practical Ways to Never Fight With Your Partner Again

·July 27, 2015
·Zamara Perri
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Black lesbians, it's okay to disagree with our partners, but let's practice doing in ways that will save our relationships, not harm them!

Never Fight With Your Partner Again: A Black Lesbian’s Blueprint

·July 25, 2015
·Zamara Perri
·4 Comments

Every couple has quarrels, disagreements, disputes, clashes, arguments and even fights. What sets a healthy relationship apart from an unhealthy one is, how they fight.

11 Ideas to Spice Up Your Boring Love Life

·April 3, 2015
·Zamara Perri
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Written by Giselle Bella So, you’ve been in a great relationship for some time, but … let’s face it, you’ve become content and somewhat bored. This is causing a yearning…

8 Ways to Win Her Heart This Valentine’s Day Without Breaking the Bank

·February 11, 2015
·Zamara Perri
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So, Valentine’s Day is almost here and you want to impress her! More so, you want to impress her and keep your pockets healthy. Plus you’re out of ideas to make this work for the good of all involved. Well, The Love Goddess has you covered with some great ideas!