No Thanks, I Don’t Want To Be Your First. #SorryNotSorry
Every lesbian was somebody’s first. I hear that all the time as the reason why I need to change my mind about never wanting to date a new lesbian. That…
[VIDEO] Should You Trust Your Girlfriend Around Her Ex?
Why are so many black lesbians uncomfortable with their partners maintaining contact with their exes? I hear it on social media all the time! We’ve even had a couple…
[VIDEO] What’s Love Got to Do With It?
I believe that because of the love we feel for each other, it requires us to be accountable for how we feel and act.
To me, that means that when we love someone else, we care very much about giving to her and supporting her in a way that causes her to blossom and be her best.
VIDEO: Don’t Believe This Lie About Love!
One of the most common complaints I hear from other black lesbians is that real love doesn’t exist anymore. Or that all folks want is a buddy for sexting, insta-relationships…
Beware of Predators Who Promise Fake Relationships
Ladies, stop sharing your dreams with temporary people. There are women out there who are severely mentally ill or deranged. It gives them a rush to manipulate you and give…
We Are Not Ready for the Relationships We Claim We Want
It took me a few tries before it sunk in. I would go around telling everybody and their mama who would listen to me that I wanted and deserved a…
10 Questions You Should Ask When Taking a Break From Your Relationship
Written by Zamara Perri No matter how much you love each other, there will be times when your girlfriend, wife or partner will pluck your very last nerve. (If that…
5 Lessons You Learn From Ending a Toxic Relationship
Written by Zamara Perri It’s never easy to say goodbye. You loved her. You still love her. But you walked away because it was clear to you that the relationship…
Why We Must Support Black Businesses
Written by Zamara Perri For years people have been asking me to start a private Facebook group, and I kept saying no. Why? I wanted to put the same amount…
