We’ve Got to Stop Lying About Loving Black Women
Written by Zamara Perri As black lesbians live, love and nurture in the age of Alton Sterling and Orlando, we find ourselves in a difficult situation: belonging to three oppressed…
What Every Lesbian Needs to Know About Caring for Her Vagina
Written by Zamara Perri The photo posted to social media was of a beautiful, black who was completely naked. But most people weren’t focused on her beauty. Instead they were…
Why Black Lesbians Need So Much Love
Written by Zamara Perri A kiss should not end in a mass shooting. But that’s what happened on Saturday, June 11, 2016 at Pulse nightclub in Orlando. Fifty people…
Can You be Friends With Your Ex?
Written by Zamara Perri I used to think of my exes as really good friends. But now I realize that I’m friendly with them. But I wouldn’t call those relationships…
A Message About Hateful Christians & Insecure Men Who Intrude on Lesbian Spaces
Written by Zamara Perri It all started when I posted a stunning photo of identical twin sisters on my Facebook page. Both of these ladies were good looking, very…
Why All Lesbian Femmes Should Buy Their Own Dildos
“Ok so my girlfriend strap is too big.... i have expressed this to her a couple times and she laughed it off and made a joke of it.....idk what to do … i thought about buying another but i don't know how she'll take it … advice please.”
Why Black Lesbian Queens Stay in Bad Relationships
When a black woman falls in love with another woman, especially for the first time, it can be completely magical. She makes our heart skip a beat, our palms sweaty, puts butterflies in our stomach and makes our panties wet. We can’t stop thinking about her, wanting her and dreaming about your future together.
Maybe she is the one. Maybe she’s not. Lesbians are famous for falling in love quickly and trying to build something out of nothing. And we black lesbian queens are no different.
But for real though, just because you fall in love with someone doesn’t mean you have to build a life together.
Three Things I Learned From Kidnapping my Partner for Christmas
My honey and I knew it was not going to be a great Christmas. It was around 10 p.m. on Christmas Eve and my partner had been watching a movie downstairs while I was upstairs unable to sleep. I got up, threw on some tights, a tank top and a sweater then asked her to go for a ride with me.
11 Reasons Black Lesbians Can’t Find a Good Woman
One of the most common complaints among single black lesbians is that they cannot find a good woman. They complain that the reason they are single is because the type of women they are looking for aren’t checking for nice, hardworking and drama free women. But have you thought that maybe it’s not them but it’s you? The truth may hurt, but facts are facts. If you’re single and you don’t want to be, it’s probably due to one of these 11 reasons:
