No Thanks, I Don’t Want To Be Your First. #SorryNotSorry
Every lesbian was somebody’s first. I hear that all the time as the reason why I need to change my mind about never wanting to date a new lesbian. That…
Kissing Black Lesbians Grace New York Times Magazine Covers
The New York Times Magazine recently captured the love and intimacy between 37 couples in the world’s most famous city--New York. Four of those photos featured the intensity, passion, love…
I Regret Giving Money to My Ex
Money is one of the biggest causes of relationship stress. It is even one of the top causes of divorce. So you can only imagine how difficult it is to…
I was Married to a Man When I Discovered I Loved Women
Written by Neece Parish I grew up in the church where I was taught clearly defined gender roles and rules for sexuality.I dated boys, then men; never really satisfied…
[VIDEO] Should You Trust Your Girlfriend Around Her Ex?
Why are so many black lesbians uncomfortable with their partners maintaining contact with their exes? I hear it on social media all the time! We’ve even had a couple…
[VIDEO] What’s Love Got to Do With It?
I believe that because of the love we feel for each other, it requires us to be accountable for how we feel and act.
To me, that means that when we love someone else, we care very much about giving to her and supporting her in a way that causes her to blossom and be her best.
Could I Lose The Children I Raised? A Stud’s Story
Written by Shy Williams My worst nightmare has come true. We were no longer a couple. I am now alone in our two-bedroom apartment. She packed up a few outfits…
Bullies Want Puppets, Not Partners
Written by Casey Mason* Don’t go looking for a strong, capable woman with her life in order and expect her not to have likes, dislikes, opinions and a personality built…
Teressa and LaTasha Loving & Laughing Together
Written by Teressa Wilson I met my wife LaTasha on an online dating app back in 2013. The app indicated that we were 90 percent compatible. Her profile picture was…
