I am about to resume writing for you guys this year, but before I do, I want to clear up some myths and misconceptions about me with stone cold facts straight from my big mouth! If you’re ready, keep reading!
Yes, I Have Sex for Money
FACTS:Yes, I am a sex worker! Some of you gagged when you read this under my bio for one of the articles I wrote for BLLL. What exactly does that mean? Well, I get paid to have sex, either through the porn I am producing or through private clients.
I see you still gagging and clutching your pearls, but it is what it is. I’m not ashamed of what I do. As long as there is a demand, I will continue to supply.
I produce stud-for-stud porn mostly, but I will be expanding to other genres this year.I plan to give you the most realistic lesbian sex scenes ever produced and not the fake crap we see online told through a cis-hetero male lens. Stay tuned to BLLL for updates and release dates.
I’m a Sex Educator
I am a sex educator and stud-for-stud advocate as well. I literally teach people how to have sex. You would be surprised to know how many women don’t understand basic body parts and how they function as it relates to sexual pleasure.
Because of the shame around sex, especially with masculine women, I enjoy showing and encouraging them on how to have loving, affirming sex.
I know for a fact that I’ve saved relationships, boosted self-esteems and instilled confidence.
My Work is Important
My work is important, and I take it very seriously even if you don’t.
I do call myself a heaux (ho, hoe, whore, slut, thot) only because I want to redefine the term.
I’m single and free. So as long as I’m not hurting anyone and I’m safe, there is no reason why I can’t be with as many people as I can fit in my schedule.
I know we as women are conditioned to think that sleeping with multiple people is nasty or unbecoming, but we really need to get out of that mindset.
I understand everyone isn’t built to have sex without an emotional bond of some kind. But some of us march to our own beat and gives no fucks about what society thinks we should be doing.
I do what I want, damn if you like it or not. Sex makes me feel good, it relieves stress, and I also need to keep practicing for the porn.
Sex With One Person is Hella Boring
I talk about sex all the time to normalize it. Having sex with multiple people isn’t bad, nor should it be shamed.
Honestly, I think being with one person is boring as hell, but I don’t demonize it. For some people, that’s all they need or want, and I respect that. I just ask that people respect those that choose not to be monogamous.
Studs Creep in MY DMsFICTION: I don’t snatch studs off the street and make them be with me. I’ve heard this myth for years. It’s not true, and it annoys me. Every single person I have been with, has come to me voluntarily knowing exactly what they’re going to get.
I Do Not Break Up Happy Homes
I don’t break up happy homes or go out of my way to break up relationships.
However, I’m also not anyone’s moral gatekeeper. If you come to me knowing you have a partner at home, that’s your problem. I rarely even ask of one’s relationship status because it’s not my concern.I’m single therefore I’m not cheating. If you don’t care, neither do I.
So, for all the people calling me a homewrecker, I strongly suggest you have that conversation with your partner to find out exactly why they are stepping out on you. What you won’t/can’t do, the next person will.
I do Not Hate Femmes
I’ve also heard that I am a femme hater. Nothing could be further from the truth. I adore femmes, and I have much respect for the crap you have to endure, both from raggedy ass studs and trifling cis hetero men.
My preference is studs, but I do have sex with femmes too. I do not, however, want to be in a relationship with a femme. I just really love the bois.I hope this formal introduction clears up any questions you may have had about me or what I do. I’m open and honest and always available to answer any questions concerning sex, porn, life, relationships or whatever. I look forward to serving you, my community.