You Teach Your Partners to Disrespect You
WATCH on Youtube>>> https://youtu.be/4q7RZVvGgyg It seems like one of our favorite past times as black lesbians is to sit around talking about the many ways our partners or ex-partners disrespect…
She Gave Me Herpes
Written by Rose Jackson I keep hearing lesbians say they feel safe from sexually transmitted infections (STIs) because they are dating another lesbian. I thought I was safe until I…
Celebrating Black Lesbian Couples That Graduate Together
It’s graduation season and it’s beautiful to see young people achieve their goals of finishing school. For some, achieving such an important goal with the one you love is an…
I Date White Women Because I Don’t Want to Die Alone
Written by Sade K. Washington I am 35, and I’ve never dated a black American woman. My life experiences with black women have overwhelmingly been antagonistic and alienating. And those…
10 Reasons Why You Should Go To Therapy
The most common question we get at Black Lesbian Love Lab is, “how can I find a healthy relationship” or “how can I improve my relationship?” Because I’m a black…
5 Lessons You Learn From Ending a Toxic Relationship
Written by Zamara Perri It’s never easy to say goodbye. You loved her. You still love her. But you walked away because it was clear to you that the relationship…
A Transwoman’s Journey to Discovering Her True Self and True Love
Interviewed by Zamara Perri Adrienne Kincaid is a black, trans, lesbian, engineer who lives in Portland with her wife, Jamie, their dog, Angus, five cats, a bearded dragon, a turtle,…
Tanya and Ebony: “I Refuse to Lose My Blessing Because of a Disability”
“My spine is torn, and I have several crushed discs in my back. The discs being crushed/collapsed are actually what’s holding my spine together. I also have four spine disorders…
A Meditation on Romance and Partnership and Love
Written by Vanessa Rochelle Lewis It's not about whether I love you or not. Does the way I love you feel good to you? Does the way I love you…
