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The Exes and Hoes

I think relationships will last longer if people would think about those 80s versus 20s. Unless you are truly unhappy and you are in an unhealthy relationship think about it before you leave your current situation. Let me tell you, although the joys of dating are fun, some of these ladies are just plain ole crazy and you will find a couple of rare gems if you are lucky. Just take the time to evaluate what is out there versus what you have. If there are more good times than bad, think about it.

New Booty

I know in life things happen and people grow apart, but I am talking about the 5-10 year relationships that are about to end because of new booty. OMG! I cannot stand new booty. New booty will ruin your life. Yes, I have been a victim and I have been the new booty. And those few seconds of pure intense passion is not worth ruining a home or messing up your own. Let me tell you, as a former piece of new booty I had a mission—to be everything your girlfriend wasn’t. That is why new booty is so good because it is new and it seems fresh but it is just someone else’s recycled mess. Don’t do it, don’t ruin your relationship over it. Think about your 80% because any woman that will get with you while you are in a relationship will get with another woman while she is in a relationship with you. Think about it.

Be luvly.



Luvly Jones is the oldest of three, daughter of a Christian pastor and enjoys writing poetry and short stories. After dating a plethora of women, resulting in many life lessons she now shares her life with the woman she believes is “the one.” In this space she shares her journey of awareness, love, conflicts and getting through a relationship without getting arrested.

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Zamara Perri

Zamara Perri is the founder and editor of the Black Lesbian Love Lab blog. She loves black love and loves mangoes, cats, reading, cooking and writing about some of the challenges and joys of black lesbian relationships.

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