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Top 10 Reasons Why She Gets Into Relationships

maxresdefaultNot all love relationships are equal. Love is a choice and each time you give your heart or body or soul to her, there is always a reason. I think this piece written by Toni Fields, the actress on the Studville YouTube show, definitely captured the many reasons why people in general (black, white, straight, queer, woman or man) get into relationships:

10. Damsel in distress kind of love (when she is in a relationship but is not happy with yet stay and say, “woe is me”)

9. In your pockets kind of love (when she loves the power of your pockets and tolerates you)

8. Superficial kind of love (when she really only likes your looks)

7. Comfortable kind of love (when she feels safe in a situation because she is too afraid of change)

6. Imagery kind of love (when she is in a relationship because of a social notoriety of some sort)

5. Desperation kind of love (when she is in a relationship so she can say that she has a relationship or because of fear of loneliness)

4. Set up kind of love (family prearranged her partner)

3. Settling kind of love (when she just gives up on her ideal relationship for what’s available or reoccurring)

2. Unconditional kind of love (rare, when she loves someone under any circumstance)

1. Soul_full kind of love (when it’s beyond the physical, and she is completely comfortable in who you are, who she is, and there’s an inexplicable need for their presence, soul mates 🙂

Toni FieldsToni Field is an actress on the black lesbian Studville web show. She plays Channing, a sweet but chronically unlucky-in-love stud. 

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Zamara Perri

Zamara Perri is the founder and editor of the Black Lesbian Love Lab blog. She loves black love and loves mangoes, cats, reading, cooking and writing about some of the challenges and joys of black lesbian relationships.

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