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Why are Some Black Lesbians So Fckn Hard to Love?

Are you one of those women who claim to want love, but when someone tries to lay it on you, you PUSH them away?

I had to address this situation on one of my recent Facebook lives because of a personal experience I had. There was someone who I tried to get to know. She was raw, rough and rugged. And frankly she was kind of mean. But I could see that she was wanted friendship. At least that’s what she portrayed.
But friendship requires an emotional give and take. I felt like every time I tried to get closer, she bit my head off or accused me of being in her business.

I wondered if she was this rough in a platonic relationship, how was she in a romantic relationship? Have you ever been in a situation like that? Check out the video and comment below why you think some women are so hard to love!

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Zamara Perri

Zamara Perri is the founder and editor of the Black Lesbian Love Lab blog. She loves black love and loves mangoes, cats, reading, cooking and writing about some of the challenges and joys of black lesbian relationships.

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